No, not Shanghai Solitaire, you noob, REAL mahjong, the 4 player game with the pungs and the chows and the MIND-GAMES.
I like to play online: http://mahjongtime.com/
I mostly play Japanese rules, called Riichi or RCR. Why? Because it's popular online, and Akagi is an awesome anime. Also, objectively, I find it's the most competitive.
The only thing I really hate about this site is that it's not very busy, so it's difficult to get a game started, especially in the ruleset you're most comfortable with. I think I'm kinda good at this game, even though I don't have a full account at that website, so my score isn't kept for long. If there's any aspect to the game you find confusing, I'll bet that I can explain it to you.
Real men play Mahjong!
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